Tag: #advice

My random advice column. Wisdom and female knowledge that probably every girl should know.

House Dress

House Dress - do you have one? This is a pet peeve of mine. So many girls don't know about House Dresses and therefore don't even own one.

We can't always dress the way we want. We can't always wear the sexiest dresses or the shortest skirts. We try to dress nicely regardless, but certain styles of clothing are just not ready to be worn in public. But at home, we don't have strangers watching and judging us. We can be as free as we want (or our Sir permits) to be.

This is where the House Dress comes in. When you come home from work, don't just kick off your heels and slump down on the couch. Take this opportunity to wear something special. Put on something really sexy, something too extravagant or too slutty to wear it in public. At home, you can be as daring as you want (or your Sir requires). Freshen up your Makeup and style yourself. Wear something appropriate at home. Wear a nice House Dress. And don't forget your House Shoes with it.

It does not always have to be a dress, it can be some lingerie as well. What matters is to change once you get home. Housedresses are super fun and it's also a good way to get comfortable wearing more revealing clothes. You can even experiment a lot more with fashion at home. How short can your skirts go? How tight can your dresses go? Housedresses are fun, even if they take that little extra effort. Always changing when coming home, reapplying the makeup, redoing the hair,... But they are soooo worth it! Put something nice on, something that maybe you are not yet comfortable wearing in public. You can train yourself to love wearing these clothes and you will be able to wear them outside much easier. This works incredibly well for getting used to higher Heels as well.

And also, if you have male guests, they will really appreciate your outfit!

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Sluts make the world a happier place!

Sluts are fun, sluts make Men happy. Sluts are nice to look at, sluts are playful and of course, sluts are very good to fuck. It really is no wonder that Men just love sluts. You don't even have the be the biggest slut to make our world a happier place, small things can come a long way. The boy scouts, for example, say, if you do just one good deed every day, and it doesn't even have to be a big one, you are actively improving this world. But we girls can do so much more, why not do a Slut Deed a day instead?

So my Owner and i, we thought about some things everyone can do. Of course, don't do all things at the same time, take breaks. The most important thing about being a good slut is to have fun. You have to enjoy yourself. Only if you enjoy yourself, Men can enjoy you. No one wants a sad slut. Sluts are supposed to be happy and playful.

Please, dear girls, take this list as suggestions on what you can do. Feel free to improve upon this or just send me your own suggestion. Keep it realistic and fun. This should not be fantasy list, this should be things everyone can do. You don't have to be a Sasha Grey to be a good slut, just keep in mind the 2 things that define a slut: an insatiable hunger for fucking and all things sexy, and submissiveness towards Men. So take small steps. Small improvement is perfectly fine. What matters is constant improvement, not the size of the steps you take.

At public:

  • drive topless (or bottomless) in your car
  • overdress for a casual event (for example wear a sexy tight minidress with immaculate makeup to a cinema evening with friends)
  • wear too high heels to an event (for example after hours drinking with your colleagues)
  • watch porn on your phone while riding on public transport (or any other public activity)
  • instead of music, listen to sex/porn sounds on your phone (especially in public)
  • lick/suck on a lollipop/ice cream cone in a sexual manner in public
  • write slut/fuckdoll/cock socket/... on your ankle/lower foot and go out without covering it up (somewhere where it is very difficult to see, but still technically visible)
  • wear a butt plug in public (bonus points if its while going out with friends)
  • wear nipple clamps in public (you can use a loose sweater)
  • when going shopping, give your Man a blowjob in a dressing room (or any other semi-public place, works awesome in restaurant toilets too)
  • masturbate in a public restroom (or at your friends house or work)
  • fondle your own tits in public (over your top, but maybe pinch your nipples)
  • wear a very short skirt without panties
  • wear tight pants/shorts with a cameltoe
  • remove your underwear in public
  • "forget" your wet panties in a public place
  • purposefully upskirt someone in public (it's OK to wear panties, or you can upskirt no one - just spread your legs while no one is looking)
  • purposefully give a someone a perfect view of your cleavage by "accidentally" bending over in their face
  • wear stockings under a short skirt with the stocking-top showing
  • carry a sex toy in your bag and always leave it open
  • in a sex shop, ask for and buy the largest dildo they have
  • in a pet shop try on some dog collars
  • ask someone for obvious direction (like for the street you are currently on) and then apologize by saying something along the lines "oh sorry, i am such a stupid slut".

At home:
  • wear nothing but high heels and lingerie the whole day at home (or any other super sexy stuff)
  • cook a meal in nothing but high heels and an apron
  • wear nipple clamps/ben wa balls the whole day
  • take a selfie in sexy lingerie (do your make up, go all out, just for this one photo)
  • take a selfie with cum in your mouth/on your face
  • masturbate (and try to cum) without touching your clit or inserting something into your pussy
  • suck a dildo in front of a mirror without breaking eye contact with yourself
  • dress up and style yourself like a porn star, then masturbate to your own reflection
  • take a hand mirror and really study your pussy

Dear girls, please use this list as a guide to work on your sluttiness. Do one slut deed a week, or more often, but don't push yourself too hard. Remember that being a good slut is about having fun and entertaining Men :)

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Sex Matters

No matter what you do or become in life, first and foremost, be a good fuck. It is a very good thing to have aspirations in life, it is important to have goals and dreams, but the basis to achieve all this is, simply put, to be a good fuck.

Men get into relationships to get sex and we girls give sex to get relationships. This is of course very much simplified, but at its core, this is our dynamic in a relationship. Men don't crave the emotional bond we do. They are willing to give us what we need when they get what they need. Relationships are symbioses. So every girl knows that in a relationship letting the Man fuck her is her duty. Men want it way more often than we do. On the other hand, we do want to go out dancing and dining and even cuddling in bed much more often than they want to. So it is a give and take.

But it is just not enough to let your Man fuck you. This is the basis, this is the first step. To really shine in a relationship you gotta be a good fuck, not just any old fuck. Kinda like we remember the romantic gestures, the special presents, and the compliments Men give us, Men remember the girls that were good fucks.

Beauty is what sparks a Man's interest. And manners, obedience, and submission are what keeps them from running away. Remember a nagging, pushy girl just scares off Men left and right. But what really makes Men stay is being a good fuck. Being a goddess in bed, being a nasty dirty whore for them.

Luckily Men are simple beings and they gave us an instruction manual on what we need to do: Porn. Porn is simple male fantasy, without any feminists or social justice worker influence. Pure fantasy. Pure male dreams. So go on pornhub, xhamster, xvideos or whatever you like and watch. Watch the "hottest", "most viewed" or "popular" categories. See what Men like. Study the girls. Watch what they wear, what they say, how they moan. Be like those girls. Act like them. Turn into them.

There are so many things, so many fetishes, so many sex positions, and whatnot, you will definitely find things you are into. Sex can be fun for us girls too, the most important thing is to be free and do whatever you (or your Sir) want. If you give him amazing sex, he will keep you forever. i promise.

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Height Matters

There are scientific studies that show that men find women in high heels more attractive than women in flat shoes. But even more so, the higher the heels, the more interested men are into the woman.

This has many reasons which are not fully explored yet, but some contributing factors are the enforced posture change and the projection of helplessness. Damsels in distress have always allured men, so to appear vulnerable is often times a good way to catch a man's eye. High heels make us less steady and less agile, therefore appeal to a man's chivalry to protect us. This is a subconscious thing and men wanting to help and safeguard us is not a testimony to how weak we are, but to how precious we are.

So don't just go for high heels over flat shoes, always go for the highest heels possible. Sometimes agility and balance matters, then it is best to opt for kitten wedges. But most of the time it should be stilettos with an ever-growing height.

Don't wear heels you don't feel comfortable in yet. Practice with them at home, because hardly anything is less sexy than a girl stumbling along in her shoes. Wear the highest heels you can comfortably walk in and keep on training with higher ones at home.

Because height matters. Men will react better and better towards you, even on a subconscious level. Beauty always lies in the eyes of the beholder, but smart women know how to nudge him in the right direction.
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Learn to Strut

Don`t walk, strut. Walking is for getting from point A to point B, but a modern female knows, getting somewhere is not as important as getting noticed. So practice your strut and forget about walking.

Always wear heels and always cross step. Those are the basics, never stray from them. You know how models walk on a catwalk, so just imitate them without forcing it too much. A good strut comes naturally and that is why practice is very important. Train at home in front of a mirror first, listen to what the men around you say and let it become your nature.

Never walk! Always strut!

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The Right Mix

Being pretty is super important. Like, really really super mega duper important. But you gotta understand that you can always be prettier. Even good Amy Lee Summers here has things about her body she doesn’t like. It really does not matter how good you look, there will always be things to improve.

But being pretty is not all that matters. You gotta be obedient too. Obedience is the best way to make Men like you more. Of course, Men will always go for the beautiful girls first and the more beautiful you are, the more attention you will get from Men. And Men do have a high tolerance for taking crap from a pretty girl as well. But at the end of the day, Men prefer docile, obedient girls to bitchy ones.

So use this to your advantage. Maybe you can’t be the most pretty girl in a room, but you can improve your value with obedience. Men will trade down a bit for a docile girl. For ease of maintenance. For user-friendliness.

Work on your body, but don’t forget your mind. There will always be girls prettier than you. There will always be girls more fuckable than you. There will always be girls more obedient than you. There will be better cooks, dancer, cleaners, cock suckers,… whatever. You can’t be the best in everything, but you can have a perfect mix.

Look at all the qualities Men like in a girl and work on all of them. Put Men first with whatever you do. Always ask yourself: will Men like this? Your biggest obstacles at first will be dignity and self-respect. But once you get rid of them, you can be every Men’s dream girl. So even if this girl is hotter than you, you are dressed sluttier than her. And if this girl sucks cock so much better than you, well you are much better at following orders than her. It is the right mix that wins!

And in that spirit: dear Men, what are the qualities you like in a girl?

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