Actually, never wear anything without matching High Heels. And actually, even if you are not wearing anything, you should still wear matching High Heels. Heels are just the perfect friend, the perfect accessory to make you look more beautiful. Sometimes at a beach or when sun tanning on grass, a wedge heel might be better than a stiletto, but the fact remains: you look better in high heels.
Like you would never go out without makeup, you should never let other people see you without Heels. They shape our form, they pronounce our assets better than any other item can. High Heels are girl's best friend, so always, and i mean always, wear them. Even home alone, or while sunbathing at the pool. No Exceptions.
Because looking good matters. That is why it is also important to have different styles of bikinis: for tanning, for swimming, and for sports. i used to play a lot of beach volleyball when i was younger and i always wore less sexy but more robust bikinis for that. But when tanning i always wore the most sexy and sometimes even very fragile bikinis. If you know what you are going to do, you can plan accordingly and wear the best things for that occasion. For example, while tanning you can even wear full makeup. You just have to remember to not go into the water :)
With Shoes, there is only one rule to follow: You can always go higher. It does not matter what you are doing, it does not matter where you are going - push yourself for higher heels. Wear the highest you can get away with. You'll need lower ones for hiking than you do for clubbing. But what matters is, the next time you do the same activity, try a tad bit higher.
Start with lower heels if you have to, it is not important how high you can go now, all that matters is that you improve yourself and slowly, but steadily get to higher heels.
You can wear uncomfortable high heels at home until they feel more comfortable and then go out wearing them and start wearing higher ones at home. At home, you can easily rest and sit down. So it's the perfect place to train your feet and break in new shoes. And don't tell me you are not feeling like a supermodel walking in your underwear and high heels through your apartment. Be proud of your femininity. But keep improving.
Always push yourself, always improve yourself. Never think "this is too high", if you apply yourself, you can always go higher.
There are scientific studies that show that men find women in high heels more attractive than women in flat shoes. But even more so, the higher the heels, the more interested men are into the woman.
This has many reasons which are not fully explored yet, but some contributing factors are the enforced posture change and the projection of helplessness. Damsels in distress have always allured men, so to appear vulnerable is often times a good way to catch a man's eye. High heels make us less steady and less agile, therefore appeal to a man's chivalry to protect us. This is a subconscious thing and men wanting to help and safeguard us is not a testimony to how weak we are, but to how precious we are.
So don't just go for high heels over flat shoes, always go for the highest heels possible. Sometimes agility and balance matters, then it is best to opt for kitten wedges. But most of the time it should be stilettos with an ever-growing height.
Don't wear heels you don't feel comfortable in yet. Practice with them at home, because hardly anything is less sexy than a girl stumbling along in her shoes. Wear the highest heels you can comfortably walk in and keep on training with higher ones at home.
Because height matters. Men will react better and better towards you, even on a subconscious level. Beauty always lies in the eyes of the beholder, but smart women know how to nudge him in the right direction.