Tag: #sex matters

First Times

For a long time, i didn't understand what Men find hot about this. A girl licking a toilet or other non-sexual but icky things. But nowadays i know that it isn't about sex, it is about dignity. A normal person wouldn't lick the toilet, but a dirty whore would. That means by licking the toilet the girl admits to being a dirty whore. She shows that she has no boundaries, that she will do anything for him. Often it does not even matter what it is she does, as long as she does it because he wants it (and would never do it without him demanding it). And the more repulsive the action is, the more turned on the Man gets.

By debasing ourselves, by lowering ourselves to toilet licking whores, we can attract male attention. Every girl can look pretty in a dress, it is not that difficult. And while it is also not technically difficult to lick a toilet, most girls get stopped by their pride and dignity. Only by being able to overcome those burdens, we can show Men that we are worth their time. We can show them that we don't act inside the normal morals, that we are not like all the other girls, we are better, more fun. Of course, toilet licking is here just an example, not every Man will be into this particular action, but what they are into is into pushing the boundaries of what is considered "normal".

In that sense, it is kind of a test. A test if we are ready to submit or if our pride and dignity have ruined us. When it comes to sex Men have a very dirty and creative mind. There will always be new things that they invent. Just look at the porn industry. One would assume that by now every kind of porn has already been shot but yet the industry is booming with more and more videos coming out each day. Men don't want to let their sex life get stale, they need new things. So while it might have been enough to show some ankle 150 years ago, today Men need more. They need dirty sluts. They need us to throw away the "morals" of society and go the extra mile. Where it once has been showing some ankle, then maybe some knee and now we are in a time where clean-shaven pubic hair and anal sex is expected.

It won't stop. It will keep going. Men will need more and more, we can't just sit back and relax on the basis that we once licked a toilet. No, Men need more and need it repeated. You cannot do things for the first time twice. Once you degraded yourself in a certain way, you can repeat it but you can never make happen for the first time again. With each repeat, it will get easier and more normal. That is why morals shift - there will always be people on the edge of what is "normal" and push the boundaries a little further. And after a while, it is not seen as weird anymore and a new normal gets created.

So keep in mind that with every degrading action, with every defiance of your pride and with every renouncing of your dignity, you shift what's normal a little bit further. And every first you give your Man just ingrains you in his brain. A Man will not remember the 10th blowjob he got, but he sure as hell still knows everything about the first time he came into a girl's mouth.

Do your research and check the porn sites for new stuff. Look at what is trending, those are the videos Men are watching. Watching something is the first step. After they have seen plenty of it, they will want to experience it. So prepare by watching the same videos and get used to the ideas in porn. Over time even the most degrading actions can appear normal to us, use this to your advantage and always be one step ahead :)

Of course, this does not mean that this is all Men want. Men want a variety of things, they are quite complex beings. But porn, sex, and degradation go hand in hand. Every Man is influenced by them to some extent. Some more and some less. But it never hurts to dismantle any pride you might feel. Pride never helped anyone, it is poisonous. With dignity it is the same. No girl ever got her prince charming because she was the most dignified. No Man ever had an orgasm from respecting a girl.


I had this epiphany a while ago while watching one of my favorite movies: Mini's First Time. It is a movie about how things are only really fun the first time you do them. And once they are done, there is no way of undoing them and each repeat is just an echo of the first time.


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Sex Matters

No matter what you do or become in life, first and foremost, be a good fuck. It is a very good thing to have aspirations in life, it is important to have goals and dreams, but the basis to achieve all this is, simply put, to be a good fuck.

Men get into relationships to get sex and we girls give sex to get relationships. This is of course very much simplified, but at its core, this is our dynamic in a relationship. Men don't crave the emotional bond we do. They are willing to give us what we need when they get what they need. Relationships are symbioses. So every girl knows that in a relationship letting the Man fuck her is her duty. Men want it way more often than we do. On the other hand, we do want to go out dancing and dining and even cuddling in bed much more often than they want to. So it is a give and take.

But it is just not enough to let your Man fuck you. This is the basis, this is the first step. To really shine in a relationship you gotta be a good fuck, not just any old fuck. Kinda like we remember the romantic gestures, the special presents, and the compliments Men give us, Men remember the girls that were good fucks.

Beauty is what sparks a Man's interest. And manners, obedience, and submission are what keeps them from running away. Remember a nagging, pushy girl just scares off Men left and right. But what really makes Men stay is being a good fuck. Being a goddess in bed, being a nasty dirty whore for them.

Luckily Men are simple beings and they gave us an instruction manual on what we need to do: Porn. Porn is simple male fantasy, without any feminists or social justice worker influence. Pure fantasy. Pure male dreams. So go on pornhub, xhamster, xvideos or whatever you like and watch. Watch the "hottest", "most viewed" or "popular" categories. See what Men like. Study the girls. Watch what they wear, what they say, how they moan. Be like those girls. Act like them. Turn into them.

There are so many things, so many fetishes, so many sex positions, and whatnot, you will definitely find things you are into. Sex can be fun for us girls too, the most important thing is to be free and do whatever you (or your Sir) want. If you give him amazing sex, he will keep you forever. i promise.


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