The Modern Female

I am a girl from Austria and this is my blog about how to be a modern girl and the importance of female obedience to male authority. I believe in the good in people, the power of traditional genderoles, anti-feminism/pro-femininity, and that happiness is a choice.

Only 2 things matter!

Your beauty and your obedience. Everything else is really pretty much unimportant. Well, not really unimportant - things like being a good cook, being a good fuck, and things like that do matter, but beauty and obedience are the basics. The minimum requirement to be a good girl. So try to work on your beauty when you are on your own and try to work on your obedience when you are in the company of Men.


Unpretty girls never get the attention they need and disobedient girls never keep the attention they received. So, dear girls, stay beautiful and work on your body. Get a gym membership, do sports, learn new makeup tricks, go on a shopping spree for slutty clothes,... Do whatever it takes to be the most beautiful version of yourself. Be the most pretty you possible. Remember that beauty comes in many forms and not everyone can have Gigi Hadid's hair, Kim Kardashian Wests' ass, Britney Spears' abs, Aletta Ocean's tits, Kendall Jenner's face, and Rihanna's legs. But just because you don't look like a supermodel (yet) doesn't mean you can slack off. Perfection is not something we ever gonna reach, it is a goal to strive for.

And, for the love god, dear girls, always and i can't stress this enough, always be as obedient as possible. Men have to deal with so much stressful and unfun stuff all day, they really don't need you to add to that. When interacting with a Man, always be super submissive and follow every order to the dot.

If you always keep those 2 simple things in mind, you will find happiness. i promise :)


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Guest Post: IQ and gender

Nowadays a lot of people think that men and girls are 100% equal in all areas. However, they forget that there are a lot of biological differences between our genders. One of them, for example, is how our brain works. This does not mean one is better than the other, just that they work differently.

So without further ado, here is a post by Robert Benson from the Disqus Threads that are all over my website. Feel free to join in whenever :)


FACT: Girls Have Lower IQs than Men

This data was posted by tussi4life (AKA the-modern-female, back in the Tumblr days), but she didn’t do a thorough job of analyzing it. She, however, is to be commended for having such an excellent blog and for bringing this to our attention.

IQ tests are adjusted so that they don’t show sex differences. However, Helmuth Nyborg studied sex-linked intelligence scores in “Sex-related differences in general intelligence g, brain size, and social status”. This is a meta-analysis of studies of sex-linked IQ test results. His study was able to create this graph which clearly shows there are different distributions of male and female IQ scores. It is based on the scores of 91 males, and 90 females, so the distribution is fairly accurate for the entire population.

(here is the picture of the distribution curve)

This chart shows a number of things:

1st, Men are on average smarter than girls. Drop a line from the peak of the Men’s blue line down to the scale on the bottom. Drop another line from the peak of the girls red line down to the scale. The comparison of the two points on the line (-0.23g versus +0.3g, a difference of 0.46g) shows the average Man on average is smarter than the average girl — and by a significant extent (about 6.9 IQ points).

2nd, there are more dumb girls than Men. At the lower (left) end of the g scale there are proportionately more girls than Men. At -2.0g (and below) it is about 200% more girls, at -1.5g it is about 40% more girls, at -1.0g it is about 33% more girls, at -0.5g it is about 25% more girls, and at 0g it is about 12% more girls.

3rd, there are a lot more really bright Men than smart girls. The same kind of pattern holds for the smart group, except in reverse with the Men on top. The ratio becomes even more extreme, however. So, at +2.0g (about 130 IQ) there are about 300% more Men than girls, and at +3.0 (about 145 IQ) there are 800% more Men than girls.

4th, girls tend to group more around their sex’s average intelligence than Men do. See how the red line overall has a higher (and slightly narrower) peak than the blue line? This shows that the girl's intelligence is actually more closely grouped around their mean. So, although Men have higher intelligence on average, and there are more smart Men than girls from 0.5 g and up, girls tend to have a slightly greater tendency to group around their average.

One of the hypotheses supported was that because Men have larger brains on average than girls, they’d be smarter. It turns out that on average Men have 15% more neurons than girls. It has also been reported that Men have more grey matter than girls (who have proportionately more white matter), and it is grey matter that is involved in rational thinking (while white matter provides interconnections). That means Men have more hardware for actual reasoning on average.

Why should girls be less intelligent? It might very well be that this is a result of natural selection and genetics. If on average Men select girls who are slightly dumber than they are for mating, then it might very well be that this has been maintained as a genetically-linked sex characteristic. In other words, fewer really smart girls breed, and the dumber girls might breed more.

From a psychological perspective, the reasons why Men would want girls who are slightly dumber is fairly obvious. The Man can more easily maintain his dominance of his girl through his slight edge in intelligence. He cannot only feel himself superior (because he actually is in intelligence and strength), but she can be more easily made to feel inferior, thus reinforcing his power over her. From a girl's perspective, though, finding a Man they can look up to and respect provides a powerful benefit to her. Girls tend to be smart shoppers, and getting a man whom they think is a step above them would be a good deal. So, both perspectives might tend to complement each other.

However, this doesn’t adequately tell the story of our biological functioning. It is obvious that girls need to be capable to maintain the home and raise the children, so their brains instead of focusing on pure intelligence are more oriented to other skills related to their fundamental role. This again relates to brain structure, for girls have somewhat more white matter than Men do (proportionately), and this improves their sensitivity to those around them which is essential for their protective and service-oriented roles.

Thus, while girls are inferior in some ways, their brains are better in other ways. It’s just that girls are generally not as well suited to compete against Men in areas where Men excel. As a Man, I have to say that we treasure the special qualities that girls bring into our lives, and simple IQ scores just do not measure that. These ideas relate to general tendencies in the entire population. Individuals will always perform to their own unique levels. So, while there are brilliant (and genius level) women, there are just far fewer of them.

Thus, the feminist idea of female equality fails to properly understand real differences between males and females. However, the differences between males and females are comparatively slight. That is to say, our civilization is able to function as well as it does because while both sexes are not really equal, we all share similar, basic functional levels due to our shared human design.


Thank you, Sir. Melanie here again. So in conclusion i wanna say that Men and girls are different. But unequality is not bad. Things only really get fun and interesting when things are different. Our differences should be celebrated and not hidden away. And when a Man and a girl work together, they can easily outperform any non mixed gender duo, because we complement each other.

Helmut Nyborg got fired for this research. Only after they failed to prove that his research was wrong, did they reinstate him back at the university. If you do research based on gender differences, this is the backlash you're going to get. It is really sad. People have that "we are all the same" so ingrained in their brain, that even legit research about it gets shut down.


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How to be a woman by Captionist

Some special picks form a caption series by Captionist on "How to be a woman"

Be nice to men.
Always be pleasant. Don't say mean things. Good girls don't want confrontations, good girls long for praise, peace, and quiet. 

Wear tight clothes.
Men like to look at nice things. So you better be a nice thing if you want male approval. 

Make yourself look stupid. It's called "cute".
Puppies are cute mainly because they are dumb and unskilled. It's the same with girls. It stimulates the male protective instinct. Use this. 

Be a role model for others.
Or "be the change you wanna see in the world". The first step to a better world starts with your foot in front of the other. 

Strive to make Men happy.
If a Man is happy, he is bound to make you happy too. 

Embrace sexual objectification.
You are sexy. Show it to the world. 

Stay fit. Stay healthy. Stay fuckable.
Your body is your most important asset. Treat it well. Do your exercises, eat healthy and keep your mind in a happy place. 

Let men tell you how to be.
To be what Men want, you gotta listen to Men. Men will tell you what they desire, what they dream about. But you gotta follow the path that they lay out for you. 

Compete with other women for male attention.
Sadly, male attention is a finite resource. Every day, every hour, every minute and every second we are in competition with each other. It is a friendly and healthy competition, don't make it get ugly - men don't like vile people. Stay happy but compete as hard as you can. 

Follow the rules made by men.
Follow rules. Always. No excuses. Rules are made to be obeyed. Don't complain about them. They are made for a reason. You don't have to understand the reasoning behind them to follow them. So don't even try. If a Man made a rule, that rule has a purpose. Don't question it.


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Happy Birthday USA :)

Happy Birthday, dear US of A. May you bring us many more sluts in skimpy bikinis, especially now in the summer.

And since this is a very happy day, we should all go and bounce our titties as much as possible :) Because, remember, dogs wag their tail when they are happy, girls bounce their titties!


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Get ahead by giving head!  

How to get what you want from life? For Men this is a complicated thing. It is about taking charge, picking his battles and achieving things. Being a Man is a tough thing. Luckily, we are girls. For a girl to get what she wants from life is pretty simple: give head.

Men love getting their dick sucked. And if you do a good job, he will like you. And when a Man likes you, he will watch out for you and provide for you. So to get ahead in life, you have to give head. You have to give Men what they want, so they will give you what you want. And Man have the power and strength to provide us with everything we could ever dream of. They are our knights in shining armor.

So it is pretty simple. Get ahead by giving head. But even if you don't understand all the concepts, just try giving more blowjobs. Offer them more freely. You will instantly see an improvement in how Men treat you. And being valued by Men, being liked and loved and lusted after, this is what being a girl is all about. Be smart, give head. 


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The epitome of Tussi

Paris Hilton is one of my first big idols. 1 Night in Paris might even be the first porno i ever saw (not 100% sure though). The album Paris is still in my Spotify rotation, Bottoms Up (maybe the most underrated movie of all time, a drug-free Jason Mewes, David Keith as gay uncle and Paris as basically herself) and of course, Hottie & the Nottie also rank high on my fave movies list. Even though mediocre, i have read Confessions of an Heiress multiple times. She is just the OG Tussi - whenever people ask me what Tussi really means, i always answer it is bimbo-lite, think a young Paris Hilton :) i adore her for sooo many different reasons and on more than one occasion i pretended to be her :D


Now we have the Kardashians and even though in all honesty Kendall is way hotter than Paris ever was, none of the Kardashians can even come close to Paris' fashion sense. Paris wouldn't be caught dead in most things they wear outside of work. So here is some timeless fashion advice from the Princess herself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JlbjyPCQQjQ

Some timeless key points to always keep in mind:

  • Miniskirts should be the size of a belt.
  • Always wear heels. 
  • Pink! 
  • Always dress like a princess. If you do, you will be treated like one. 
  • There is no such thing as too many rhinestones.
  • No crop top is too cropped.
  • Always look like you are having fun.

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You can always go higher!

With Shoes, there is only one rule to follow: You can always go higher. It does not matter what you are doing, it does not matter where you are going - push yourself for higher heels. Wear the highest you can get away with. You'll need lower ones for hiking than you do for clubbing. But what matters is, the next time you do the same activity, try a tad bit higher.

Start with lower heels if you have to, it is not important how high you can go now, all that matters is that you improve yourself and slowly, but steadily get to higher heels.

You can wear uncomfortable high heels at home until they feel more comfortable and then go out wearing them and start wearing higher ones at home. At home, you can easily rest and sit down. So it's the perfect place to train your feet and break in new shoes. And don't tell me you are not feeling like a supermodel walking in your underwear and high heels through your apartment. Be proud of your femininity. But keep improving.

Always push yourself, always improve yourself. Never think "this is too high", if you apply yourself, you can always go higher.


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