The Modern Female

I am a 20-something year old girl from Austria and this is my blog about how to be a modern girl and the importance of female obedience.

Sex Matters

No matter what you do or become in life, first and foremost, be a good fuck. It is a very good thing to have aspirations in life, it is important to have goals and dreams, but the basis to achieve all this is, simply put, to be a good fuck.

Men get into relationships to get sex and we girls give sex to get relationships. This is of course very much simplified, but at its core, this is our dynamic in a relationship. Men don't crave the emotional bond we do. They are willing to give us what we need when they get what they need. Relationships are symbioses. So every girl knows that in a relationship letting the Man fuck her is her duty. Men want it way more often than we do. On the other hand, we do want to go out dancing and dining and even cuddling in bed much more often than they want to. So it is a give and take.

But it is just not enough to let your Man fuck you. This is the basis, this is the first step. To really shine in a relationship you gotta be a good fuck, not just any old fuck. Kinda like we remember the romantic gestures, the special presents, and the compliments Men give us, Men remember the girls that were good fucks.

Beauty is what sparks a Man's interest. And manners, obedience, and submission are what keeps them from running away. Remember a nagging, pushy girl just scares off Men left and right. But what really makes Men stay is being a good fuck. Being a goddess in bed, being a nasty dirty whore for them.

Luckily Men are simple beings and they gave us an instruction manual on what we need to do: Porn. Porn is simple male fantasy, without any feminists or social justice worker influence. Pure fantasy. Pure male dreams. So go on pornhub, xhamster, xvideos or whatever you like and watch. Watch the "hottest", "most viewed" or "popular" categories. See what Men like. Study the girls. Watch what they wear, what they say, how they moan. Be like those girls. Act like them. Turn into them.

There are so many things, so many fetishes, so many sex positions, and whatnot, you will definitely find things you are into. Sex can be fun for us girls too, the most important thing is to be free and do whatever you (or your Sir) want. If you give him amazing sex, he will keep you forever. i promise.

Ask #1

Question from my bdsmlr: You often say male pleasure should come first. But you also want girls to adopt the lifestyle you envision. My question is: why would girls want to partake in a lifestyle that puts their pleasure second? (PS: I'm not a girl. Just curious as to what's enjoyable to a female whose sex life is primarily for her man to get off.)

Yes, male pleasure is paramount. This does however not mean that a girl's pleasure is unimportant, it just ranks 2nd, directly behind male pleasure.

In a lot of areas, it is the polite or the right thing to do to have your spouse or a friend come first. As a host at a party, you are supposed to look after the guests, as a parent you are supposed to put your kids first, as a ship captain you are supposed to look after everyone leaving the ship before you in an emergency. Lots of areas where it is just what is expected: selfishness is often frowned upon. So putting your Men's pleasure first is nothing unreasonable or never heard of the concept.

Also, girls LOVE to nurture. We want our Man to have a good time. But it goes deeper like that. A girl should want to be the most precious possession her Man owns. It comes down to traditional gender roles. The Man has to decide, he has to pick out the dates, plan them and pay for them. This is the Man's job. The girl's job is to be agreeable and pretty. This is of course very simplified now, but there are certain roles we gotta play. You gotta know your place, right?

Besides social norms, there is also the part of sex. Men want sex more often than we do. That is just basic biology. So, in general, it is pretty unpractical to make every sex about the girl, because she won't be in the mood for that. It is much easier and better to focus on the Man in these situations.

Also, the orgasm is a big part of it. Men cum fast. They get the pleasure from the orgasm and the build-up to it, while nice, is not what sex is all about for them. For us girls it's different. We can have AMAZING sex without cumming. Our orgasm can be super nice, but actual for us it is quality over quantity. While a Man can cum 3 quick times and always feel the same, we don't get the same enjoyment from 3 quick orgasms as we do from one really intense one.

And since it is about the intense ones with us girls, it is better to set them aside for special occasions. Edging helps to build them out and sex comes down to "advanced edging" if you want. So when the time is right, the Man can allow the female orgasms and it will be glorious. Believe me, this system produces a much higher quality of sex life for the girl :)

Of course, there are the greedy girls that always want to cum and do so. But during sex, if you are focused on your own orgasm, you don't pay 100% attention to your partner. And i for one, don't want to be THAT bitch. When my Owner is fucking me, i want him to enjoy it to the fullest. i want him to always come back to ME when he is horny. i want to show him how special i feel that he chose me. Sex is kind of like the reward he gets for being a good Man. And i want him to enjoy it as much as possible.


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Raising awareness for TGITBD!

This is something very dear to my heart. Something that can make this world so much a better place, that we all ought to feel ashamed of not doing it more often. i am of course talking about Titty Bouncing.

The act of titty bouncing is pretty simple, every girl knows how to do it. And yes, you can even bounce pretty small titties. It is not always about pure size, even though bigger tits obviously bounce better. But it is not about size or bounciness, it isn't even about tits: it is about portraying happiness.

We all know how cute dogs look when they come running towards you, waging their tail to their fullest and just radiating happiness because of it. This is what we need between humans as well. We just don't have any tails to wag, but luckily we girls have titties to bounce. And coincidentally, bouncing titties make Men very happy. So why not project happiness that way?

Which brings us back to today: Friday. We all know TGIF (Thank God It's Friday), a shout to celebrate the end of the work week. So why not use this happy day to celebrate in a new way: by bouncing titties. You don't have to undress or do anything special, but on Fridays when work is over, i want each and every one of you to bounce some titties. Doesn't have to be much, doesn't have to be in public, but BE HAPPY. Radiate fun and cheerfulness. Bounce some titties.

If we start doing it today and keep doing it on Fridays, we can bring so much joy into this world. Kinda like cute puppies with wagging tails coming to give you cuddles. Let's see happy girls with a certain bounce or spring in their step, jiggling a little and making Men all around the world smile.

Because today is Friday. A day we ought to celebrate. So from now on don't say TGIF, instead say TGITBD. Thank God It's Titty Bounce Day. Because you earned it. You survived another work week and now you can be free (at least for a weekend). You can have fun, you can go crazy and you can share your happiness with the whole wide world.

By Titty Bouncing!

A body like this!

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Well, to be honest, most girls will never get a body like hers. It does not only take pure dedication over a very long time but also a lot of money. Getting fit and looking good can be done by the power of will alone, but her grade of sexiness requires the right funds as well.

Yet we shouldn't knock it off. People often talk about unrealistic beauty standards and how they are unhealthy. How it is bad to long for something you can never achieve. But i think this is exactly what we need. We need to want a body like this. We need to crave a body like this. This will keep us focused and motivated.

Goals are supposed to be unbelievably high. NASA scientists don't think like a city on Mars is unrealistic and therefore we shouldn't work on it. They know it will take time and probably a few generations, but the dream is there. When a young singer starts singing and performing her music, does she expect to be bigger than Michael Jackson, Britney, and Madonna? No, she does not. She dreams of being this big and the dream keeps her going.

With beauty, it is the same thing. We need role models like Aletta Ocean to show us what could be. To show us what we can dream about. Even if we will never reach her body form, we are not wrong in trying. We just have to accept that dreams are dreams. Dreams aren't supposed to be easy to achieve. They are goals to long for. And most dreams will never be fulfilled, that is just a part of life.

So stare at her body, imagine being her. This is all very healthy. Because then you will get out and into the gym and work your cute lil' ass off. It is about the journey. About working towards a goal. It is like being polite. Will you always be polite in every situation and never lose your temper? Probably not. But tell me, is it unhealthy to try?

A body like this is a goal worth working for. Even if we know we will never achieve it. But just getting a bit closer is worth so much. Self-improvement is a steady road. And it does not matter how far away you are from the goal - all that matters is that in a few weeks you will be a tad bit closer your goal. Improvement does not care about speed, all that counts is going in the right direction.

So i want all the girls admitting it now: Yes, i want a body like this! It is good to have dreams. Striving for things that seem unattainable is what makes us human. It is what made us evolve. Long for the stars, dear girls, long for the stars.

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Height Matters



There are scientific studies that show that men find women in high heels more attractive than women in flat shoes. But even more so, the higher the heels, the more interested men are into the woman.

This has many reasons which are not fully explored yet, but some contributing factors are the enforced posture change and the projection of helplessness. Damsels in distress have always allured men, so to appear vulnerable is often times a good way to catch a man's eye. High heels make us less steady and less agile, therefore appeal to a man's chivalry to protect us. This is a subconscious thing and men wanting to help and safeguard us is not a testimony to how weak we are, but to how precious we are.

So don't just go for high heels over flat shoes, always go for the highest heels possible. Sometimes agility and balance matters, then it is best to opt for kitten wedges. But most of the time it should be stilettos with an ever-growing height.

Don't wear heels you don't feel comfortable in yet. Practice with them at home, because hardly anything is less sexy than a girl stumbling along in her shoes. Wear the highest heels you can comfortably walk in and keep on training with higher ones at home.

Because height matters. Men will react better and better towards you, even on a subconscious level. Beauty always lies in the eyes of the beholder, but smart women know how to nudge him in the right direction.

Learn to Strut

Don`t walk, strut. Walking is for getting from point A to point B, but a modern female knows, getting somewhere is not as important as getting noticed. So practice your strut and forget about walking.

Always wear heels and always cross step. Those are the basics, never stray from them. You know how models walk on a catwalk, so just imitate them without forcing it too much. A good strut comes naturally and that is why practice is very important. Train at home in front of a mirror first, listen to what the men around you say and let it become your nature.

Never walk! Always strut!

The Right Mix

Being pretty is super important. Like, really really super mega duper important. But you gotta understand that you can always be prettier. Even good Amy Lee Summers here has things about her body she doesn’t like. It really does not matter how good you look, there will always be things to improve.

But being pretty is not all that matters. You gotta be obedient too. Obedience is the best way to make Men like you more. Of course, Men will always go for the beautiful girls first and the more beautiful you are, the more attention you will get from Men. And Men do have a high tolerance for taking crap from a pretty girl as well. But at the end of the day, Men prefer docile, obedient girls to bitchy ones.

So use this to your advantage. Maybe you can’t be the most pretty girl in a room, but you can improve your value with obedience. Men will trade down a bit for a docile girl. For ease of maintenance. For user-friendliness.

Work on your body, but don’t forget your mind. There will always be girls prettier than you. There will always be girls more fuckable than you. There will always be girls more obedient than you. There will be better cooks, dancer, cleaners, cock suckers,… whatever. You can’t be the best in everything, but you can have a perfect mix.

Look at all the qualities Men like in a girl and work on all of them. Put Men first with whatever you do. Always ask yourself: will Men like this? Your biggest obstacles at first will be dignity and self-respect. But once you get rid of them, you can be every Men’s dream girl. So even if this girl is hotter than you, you are dressed sluttier than her. And if this girl sucks cock so much better than you, well you are much better at following orders than her. It is the right mix that wins!

And in that spirit: dear Men, what are the qualities you like in a girl?